April
1, 1992
Dear friends of Ms. Vera Gale Wilkerson,
On Feb 8, 1992, in the wink of an
eye my mom unexpectedly passed away in her Chicago condo and slipped quietly
& peacefully into eternity. She would have wanted me to touch base
with everybody, as she was such a social person sweetly taking the art of
conversation to new heights. As her personal representative I want to get
off this" last letter from Billie."
Please forgive me for taking so long
to notify you but as you can imagine an executor’s job is overwhelming in the
midst of such bereavement. Even two months later now I can feel a void
that only a mother’s love can fill. In some ways I suspect I will never
be the same. There will always be an image, song, or odor that will
remind me of her.
Mom was
born in St. Louis in 1914 where her young mother quickly became a doctor.
She was very proud of her role model who died at an early age. They gave
me the gift of good genes.
The early years when she and dad
(Jupe Prewitt) raised my sister and I were very fulfilling for her.
As I recognized toward the end, nothing would ever surpass her joy of
motherhood. This was the highlight of her life, which she would
never stop talking about, at least to me.
Then came her final reward, what I
call "the good 19 years " from 1964 to 1983 with her new
husband (Lee Gale) on their thoroughbred horse farm which were wonderful
for her. She never looked and felt better. Her kids
were grown and she was well taken care of. Mother’s maternal instinct would always keep her up all night
by her horse’s side when one was foaling. During those times she
loved to entertain and Lee and Billie traveled all over the world.
She enjoyed life and all of the Palm Beach social life activities.
I find peace knowing that most of her
years here on earth were happy and productive experiences. After she
survived both of her husbands the only people in her life were my sister and I,
and have course you, her dear friends.
Finally in the twilight of her life I
would see her almost every day and we became closer than ever. I think I
was successful in trying to be all things to her. She voiced her
appreciation often. In the last few months of her life when I was ready
to leave after a visit, I would hold her for an extra few minutes
standing quietly at her doorway. It was then she would sometimes
get a little choked up and just say, "I'm going to miss my
boy." I inevitably knew that one of these visits would be the last.
She had done a lot of living and I could see her white flag going up slowly.
A decade ago she gave me the
opportunity to get started in real estate ownership and management. We
were partners in business and in life. I'm glad she was able to see my
progress and of course I will always be grateful for all of the support only a
mother can give a child. If indeed I have been successful, I owe it to
her.
I would like to thank you all personally
for enriching mothers life by being kind to her with your friendship, as well
as any gifts and cards you may have given her. (After going through everything
over the last two months I can testify that there wasn't much she could bring
herself to throw away.)
The paintings and sculptures that she
made with her own hands are throughout my house. I am now surrounded with
her good taste and beautiful things. I know some of them came from all of
you and I acknowledge and thank you for that.
As per her wishes she was cremated on
Feb 13, 1992, and my sister and I shared her ashes. With them enclosed in
a unique container I have created a cute little "shrine" here in my
living room with her violin, passport, and other personal mementoes
representing to me her well-traveled and fulfilling life.
I thought that you might appreciate
this little biography and if you have any questions or just want to talk, don't
hesitate to give me a call or write. Just as the chain of command passes
on the baton, I am now stepping into my mother’s shoes and I am thankful for
some new friends whom I have acquired through my mom.
Therefore, I will still be here for
you, just as she was during her lifetime. Mom taught me honesty
and loyalty--and would you really expect anything less from a boy who was
raised right?
Sincerely, her grateful & devoted
son,
Bill
Prewitt